How to Decode Can I Come in for a Drink

So, he picked you up for dinner took you to a romantic, moderately expensive restaurant. You had a few drinks and mildly entertaining conversation. Finally it's getting late and it's time he took you home. The tumultuous seas of dating decorum can be hard to navigate.As you walk to the door he leans in towards you, and says, "Can I come in for a drink?"Let's decode what he really means, and what you might say.


Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:
Self confidence

Step1

Dating The tumultuous seas of dating decorum can be hard to navigate, but people have been using the phrase: ‘want to come in for a drink?’ for so long that you'd have to have spent the last century under a rock not to assume that you are being invited for a lot more than a nightcap. So the important first step is, hear what he is saying. In this case, the word 'drink' does not mean liquid in a glass...although anything is possible. Understand that he is asking for an invitation to, ahem, Know you in a biblical sense.

Step2

First Date If you choose to accept the invitation, be aware that the person asking is also assuming that you're both communicating. If you invite him to come in to your home, you are entering a potentially dangerous contract with a person you may or may not know that well. He is expecting sex. What are you expecting?

Step3

To keep communication flowing on your date, and to keep everything light and friendly, know what the possibilities are before you accept an invitation for dinner in the first place, and be prepared. That way, you can strategize the end of the evening. If at the end of dinner, you find that all you really want is another drink, order it before you leave the restaurant. If it's sex that you are looking for, then by all means, let him ask you if he can come in, say yes with a smile, and then enjoy that drink.

How to Make Love to a Cougar

How to Make Love to a Cougar
By Terri Brisbane

To make love to a cougar the first thing you have to do is make love to her mind. Make sure she feels comfortable and safe with you. Look into her eyes. Eye contact is sexy. It shows you're connecting with her and not just her body. Tell her she is beautiful, smells wonderful and is sexy. Cougars don't need to concern themselves with such life-changing decisions like marriage or children. We want some pleasure of our own.


Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:
Paitence

Step1

Sexy Women Take Your Time:In keeping with the old adage 'good things come to those who wait', a cougar wants the exact opposite of a “quickie” . The cougar is in her sexual prime and is not looking to get sex over with as soon as her clothes are off.A cougar wants you to explore her body, and she wants you to let her explore yours. Kiss the back of her neck, the inside of her elbow. The cougar is not looking for you to rip her clothes off and dive in.

Step2

Kiss her everywhere Feel It:The cougar wants you to know is she wants both of you to savor every touch and sensation which magnifies the physical and emotional experience. The cougar knows what she likes but this doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want a strong man to take control.

Step3

Tantra massage Listen To Her:Every cougar is different, and she is self confident and not afraid to tell you what she wants. So listen to her. Making love to a cougar will be the most sexually blissful tantric experience you will ever have, if you remember these tips

How to To Put Gentle Back in Gentleman for Women

When did men stop being gentlemen? I know there are still some out there, but where?

How can women expect their knight in shining armor to show up on his stead if we keep kicking him off it?

Somewhere along the way, we women got mixed up by thinking that men with manners somehow downplay our equality as women.

Gentlemen are a dying breed and it is up to the women to resuscitate him.

We can start by appreciating a gentleman, expecting a gentleman, and raising our boys to be gentlemen.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Step1

Beautiful women demand respect Women, we know we have equality we burned or bras and somehow lost a lot of respect for being valued as women. I know a lot of women will disagree with me and that’s ok. I know plenty of women who don’t need protecting. I for one want to feel cherished and protected by my man.
Being a gentleman does not mean a man is a wuss or walks behind women with his tail wagging, quite the opposite actually.

A gentleman has deep respect for women, he knows she is to be honored and adored and is awe of her abilities. A gentleman always has the lady’s interest at heart even if it is just walking on the curb side of a road while taking a stroll.

Step2

Women dating expect respect Women who want to be treated as a lady must act as a lady.

Being a lady we know that men won’t tell obscene jokes in front of, show up late for a date in baggy jeans, ask us for money, fart and laugh about it or, try to bed us in the first month.

We must demand that men be gentlemen and all gentlemen have manners.

Step3

The groom Men are very confused right now not knowing where they stand. We need to ask ourselves how we want our sons and daughters to respect each other and how we want them to be treated.

Yes, Virginia there is a Mr. Knightly

How to Be a Sexy Classy Cougar

By Terri Brisbane

Beautiful older woman

Step aside Sara Jessica Parker, and move over Real Housewives of Beverly Hills: the rest of the “Cougar” pack is here.

What makes a real cougar? A real cougar is something very special and she can’t be missed.

She is much more than an M.I.L.F and much deeper. A cougar is a real woman, beautiful, intelligent, independent and on the hunt. A cougar knows how important it is to take control of her own life and she is not afraid to do so.

A cougar has her own style and unrivaled sophistication. A cougar is not an unhappy old lady looking to chase after younger men or cubs to make herself feel better about her age. The fact is the younger men are chasing the cougar. Right, Demi?

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Sex appeal
• confidence

Step1

Kim Cattrall,a hot mature women The first step to being a cougar is to know that you are indeed a cougar. Wake up that sex kitten lying inside yourself. You’re hot, sexy, and smart, you have ageless beauty and most of all, you know what you want. A cougar is not a used up old woman preying on younger men.

A cougar is tired of the old double standard and she is here to prove that age is nothing but a number.
The cougar hunters are all but too happy to please, because she is confident, sexually mature, and she doesn’t have inhibitions or body hang-ups like her younger counter parts

Step2

Dating Sevices to find a Cougar She certainly doesn’t want to be sitting at home knitting on a Saturday night. The cougar is free to choose what she wants for herself and she wants to have fun, go out to bars, and enjoy herself.

The cougar is in shape, she is proud of her body, she is happy, not afraid of getting old, and very sexy. You will never find any granny panties or old bald men with no teeth with this woman.

Step3

Sexual confidence and the older woman She oozes sexual confidence. She is not starving herself to get noticed and men are falling all over themselves to get to her. She is a confident older woman.

Being called a cougar is an honor, not a put down. Stand up, be proud ,and roar.

How to Get Cheap Surgery outside of America (not Mexico)

If you haven’t considered planning your vacation around a plastic surgery or other elective surgery like a knee or hip replacement you’re not alone but, now you should start thinking about it.There are great hospitals and excellent doctors willing to bend over backwards for you. Medicine is big business overseas.

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How to Recognize Someone Contemplating Suicide

By Terri Brisbane

Depression, feeling suicidal

Due to the economic downturn studies suggest that people are contemplating suicide more often.
Because of unemployment and company layoffs some people feel like there is no way out expect for suicide.
We have heard of a couple of Wall Street types committing suicide because of the pressure.
Hopefully knowing the signs and symptoms of suicide will help you help someone else.

Feeling trapped, hopeless, suicidal Men are more likely to commit suicide, but women make more attempts to kill themselves.

These are the signs that someone may be contemplating suicide.

* Threatening to hurt oneself or talking about killing oneself.

* Feeling hopeless.

* Feeling trapped.

* Increased alcohol or drug use.

Suicide Note

* Looking for ways to kill oneself, buying a gun, gathering pills, or other ways.

* Talking about or writing about death or wanting to die when the person does not usually do so.

* Withdrawal from family and friends.

Risky activities

* Unable to sleep or sleeping all the time.

* Acting reckless and engaging in risky activities.

* Feeling rage or wanting revenge.

* Dramatic mood changes.

* A sense of having no purpose or reason to live.

* A recent traumatic loss like a job or divorce.

• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800- 273-8255

How to Live in a Sexless Marriage

By Terri Brisbane, eHow Member

A Sexless Marriage is actually fairly common, but it's not normal non the less.

You feel hurt and frustration.

A sexless marriage can leave you feeling depressed, resentful and angry.

Being married to someone who lacks sexual desire or avoids sex altogether at all cost also causes low self esteem and loss of affection, not to mention leaving you confused.

You don't want to leave or cheat, so what do you do?

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Step1

No Sex Your mate is a wonderful person and a sweet person but also a passionless person. While there are some legitimate physical reasons why sex may not be possible, you already know that's not the case.

Is sex the most important thing in your marriage? Probably not.

Step2

Family and friends You have to focus on your family, children, friends and work. There is no such thing as a perfect marriage anyway.

There is no yelling, no fighting and you have been together for many years.

Be realistic. Did you really think that you would have awesome toe curling sex forever? Some do but most do not.

Most couples who have a sexless marriage actually do have sex occasionally.

There is absolutely no reason to cheat. Sex with somebody else will get old, less exciting and you will feel guilty and the sex will probably stop as well.

Step3

Be friends Try rekindling the romance of when you were dating before life got so hectic. Try to fall in love again with the person you married. It probably won't get you more sex but it will make the relationship better.

Look, as long as there is caring and yes, love and respect, then the marriage can work. There is no reason to divorce and upset more lives than your own.

Your mate knows there is a problem too, their not blind to it. Your spouse will appreciate that you stay with them, he or she doesn't want to split either. There's more to a marriage than sex.